Raising Good Kids

Getting a little frustrated here.  I'm trying to find parenting stuff and kids' books on morals and whatnot without getting into the G*D argument.  I'm running into crazy amounts on how to "properly" expose your kid to the Bible (including putting G*D into Science).  On the non-religious hand, I'm running into "How to raise your kid without G*D".  Damn it! I'm not looking for G*D is Dead/Fallacy either.  It's up to my kiddo as to how she forms her views and I'm not going to stuff either argument down her throat.  Yes, I'm as fed up with proselytizing Atheists as I am with the door-to-door Jesus salesmen.  And I will admit that there are a few paths that I might counsel her against (sorry dear, but do you really want to be considered property? No, he doesn't have a right to beat you.), but the choice is hers. 

Any suggestions? It's just so interesting that it'd be difficult to find a generic "it's not nice to be mean to other people even if they're mean to you" type book without getting into a Christian reading of the Golden Rule.

Please be aware that I'm moderating these posts, so don't even bother with the "You need to find Jesus" posts.